FR Ep 092: The Good Fight with Liane Davey

Today on Feminine Roadmap we are tackling conflict and Gina’s guest, Liane Davey, calls it the good fight. What is the good fight? Glad you asked because the good fight is an opportunity to utilize conflict as an indicator and a tool to “fight” more effectively. Liane shares great strategies to shift your mindset, identify your stories and learn to use healthy communication. Learn the stages of conflict so you can move through them as well as understanding the levels that shape every conflict we have. This episode is full of practical and relationship saving information. IF you find yourself conflict averse, there is something for you; if you find yourself often caught up in conflict there is something for you to. Grab a cuppa something wonderful and a friend you might need to solve some conflict with and push play- this could quite possibly change your life! http://Www.feminineroadmap.com/episode092/

SHOW NOTES:
6:31 The stages and levels of conflict
“This is going to be a dialogue between the two of us, not a monologue.”
10:54 Empathy versus sympathy
19:48 Making and holding space for others in conflict
“The quickest way to get into an unhealthy fight is to tell someone what they think, how they feel, or who they are.”
26:13 Identifying human narratives and how stories are formed
“Resentment is something you swallow hoping someone else will die.” Nelson Mandela
32:30 The poison of resentment
41:13 Vulnerability and resolving conflict
50:31 The role of judgement in conflict
“The ultimate antidote to judgement is curiosity.”
55:33 Liane’s big takeaways

RESOURCES:
Liane Davey
“The Good Fight: Use Productive Conflict to Get your Team and Organization Back on Track:” Liane Davey
Music by bensound